Sungano Imba muArizona

by Judy Hedding

Arizona ndiyo Imwe Chete Matatu Mitemo Inobvumira Kuroorana Nesungano

Musi waAugust 21, 1998, Arizona inowanikwa mumutemo mutambo wechato chinonzi sungano yechato . Vanhu vakuru vanobvumirana vachitsvaga chikwata chekuroorana muArizona vanogona kuratidza pane zvavakakumbira kuti vanoda kuti muchato uve sungano yechipatano. Mutemo unogona kuwanika muArS , Chinyorwa 25, Chitsauko 7, Zvikamu 25-901 kusvika 25-906.

Chii Chinonzi Imba Yechibvumirano, Muchidimbu

Muchato wepabonde unorevei chaizvo, uye nei vaviri vakasarudza kuita izvozvo?

Chaizvoizvo, rinoronga "hapana-mhosva" kurambana. Munhu haakwanisi kusarudza pane zvake kuti aparadze muchato mune ramangwana, kunze kwekunge pane zviitiko zvakakura, zvakataurwa pasi apa. Imba yechipatano inowanzowanzova yakawanda mumamiriro ezvinhu apo vaviri vacho vari vechitendero, kunyange zvazvo zvechokwadi chitendero hachiiti chikamu munyaya dzepamutemo dzechibvumirano ichi chechato. Yakanga yakagadzirirwa kuva nzira yekusimbisa chikwata chewanano, kusimbisa mhuri uye kuderedza kurambana kwevanhu. Saka vashoma vakaroorana vanosarudza michato yepabatanidzwa izvi zvose hazvina kubudirira.

Nzira Yokukumbira Sei Imba Yechivimbiso muArizona

Pasi peAria Arizona Sungano Murairo Mutemo wa1998, murume nomudzimai vanoda kupinda muchisungo chepano vanofanira kutora zvinotevera:

1 - Murume nomudzimai vanofanira kubvumirana, nekunyora, sezvizvi:

Tinotaura zvakasimba kuti kuroorana isungano pakati pemurume nemudzimai vanobvumirana kurarama pamwe semurume nemudzimai kwenguva yakareba ivo vose vari kurarama. Isu takasarudza mumwe nemumwe uye takagamuchira mazano asati taroorana pamusoro pemaitiro, zvinangwa uye mabasa ewanano. Isu tinonzwisisa kuti imba yechipatano ndeyeupenyu. Kana tikasangana nematambudziko emhuri, tinozvipira kutora zvose zvatinokwanisa kuita kuchengetedza imba yedu, kusanganisira kuroorwa kwekuroorana.

Tine ruzivo rwakakwana kuti zvinorevei izvi, tinozivisa kuti imba yedu ichasungwa nemutemo weArizona pamusoro pemichato yepano uye tinovimbisa kuda, kukudzwa uye kutarisirana semurume nemudzimai kwehupenyu hwedu hwose.

2 - Murume nomudzimai vanofanira kuisa chivimbiso chakataura kuti vakagamuchira kurairirwa vasati varoorana kubva kune nhengo yevafundisi kana kubva kune avo vakaroorana, uye vanocherechedzwa nomunhu iyeye, izvo zvinosanganisira kukurukurirana kwehutano hwekuroorana, kuti imba nokuda kwehupenyu, kuti ivo vachatsvaga mazano ekuroorana kana zvichidiwa, uye vachibvuma zvinoregererwa kuti mararamiro esungano angaguma sei.

Kana vakaroorana vanofunga kuti vangada kuchinja mararamiro avo akaroorana kuti vave sungano yevimbiso vanogona kudaro vasina kupa mazano, nekuisa chivimbiso uye mari.

Unogona Here Kuwana Kurambana?

Imba yemubatanidzwa yakanyanya kuoma kuparara kunze kwekuti 'nguva dzose' imba. Dare rinogona kupa kupa kurambana kune vakaroorana chimwe chezvikonzero zvisere izvi:

Upombwe.
Mumwe mukadzi anoita saroni uye akatongerwa rufu kana kuti akaiswa mujeri.
Mumwe mukadzi akasiya mumwe wacho kwegore rimwe chete uye anoramba kudzoka.
Mumwe mukadzi akarova mumwe munhu, kana mwana, hama yeumwe waaigara naye zvachose, kana kuti akaita chiito chechisimba mumhuri.
Vakaroorana vave vachirarama vari voga uye vari voga vachienderera mberi pasina kuyananiswa kwemakore maviri.
Vakaroorana vave vachirarama vari voga uye vari voga vachienderera mberi pasina kuyananisira kwegore rimwe chete kubvira musi wekuparadzaniswa kwepamutemo.
Mumwe wawakaroorana ane tsika yekushandisa zvinodhaka kana doro.
Murume nemudzimai vanobvumirana kurambana.

Zvikonzero zvekuparadzana kwepamutemo zvakasiyana zvakasiyana, asiwo zvisingakwanisi.