The Honeymoon Stage mu Ukama

Ichando chikwata muchato chinotanga pakarepo mutambo upera. Inowanzowedzera panguva yechando, kana vaviri vane nguva uye vane chido chekutarisa zvakakwana kune mumwe uye kubvisa kunze kwenyika yose.

Kushamwaridzana, rudo, uye rudo, pamwe chete nehuwandu hwepabonde, ndizvo zvinoratidzirwa zvechikwata chechichato. Iyi inguvawo apo vazhinji vakaroorana vari pamwero wavo wepanyama uye vanoona zvakanakisisa.

Hapana uye hapana munhu anofadza kune murume nomudzimai vatsva kupfuura mumwe nomumwe, uye vanogona kusarudza kurega kunonoka kwevamwe apo vanogona kunakidzwa vari voga uye pasina kukanganiswa.

Munguva yechirongwa chechichato, shamwari neshamwari dzinogona kutanga kunzwa sokuti hazvibatsiri sezvo hukama hwepedyo husingabatanidzi. Ndihwo hutsika hwakanaka.

Hasi Zvose Nezvebonde

Nzvimbo yehusiku ndiyo nguva yekutsvaga, apo iwe unodzidza zvinhu zvitsva nezvomumwe wako. Kazhinji, iwe unonzwa uchinwa doro kana iwe uri pamwe neshamwari yako . Asi pane imwe nguva inogona kuve yakajeka, iyo inokurova zvikuru: Uyu ndiye munhu wandakapikira kuti ndichandopedza hupenyu hwangu hwose neni. Wawakaroorana naye ane zvikanganiso, unoziva. Sezvaunoita iwe! Kugamuchira izvozvo zvose chikamu chekugadzirisa hupenyu hutsva pamwe chete.

Ichi chikamu ndechewo paunotanga kuita zvisarudzo zvikuru zvaungasati wakurukura musati warochato. Inguva iyo apo iwe unotanga kuumba tsika uye kutaurira tsika dzinotsanangura mararamiro ako kwemakore anotevera.

Utano Hwakakura Hwakapedzisira Rini?

Kazhinji, chikwata chechikwata cheukama chinogara kwechinguva gore. Maererano neshoko riri muThe New York Times:

"Vatsvakurudzi veAmerica neEurope vakaona vanhu 1 761 vakaroorana uye vakaramba vakaroorana pamusoro pemakore gumi nemashanu.Zvakawanikwa zvakajeka: Vasikana vasati varoorana vanofara zvikuru kukurudzirwa kunowedzera, pamwero, kwemakore maviri.Ipapo mufaro mukuru unopera uye ivo vakadzokera kwavakatanga, kunyanya maererano nemashoko ekufara. "

Zvimwe zvinetso zvakadai sebasa, nyaya dzemhuri, kushungurudza kwemari, uye utano zvinogona kutanga kumanikidzira mumwe wemumwe murume nemudzimai kuti agadzirise chinangwa chake kubva kune mumwe mutsva kune imwe nzvimbo. Kazhinji vaviri vacho vanogona kudzorera shure uye kuvandudza kudhakwa kwavo nevamwe.

Kune vamwe vakaroorana, chikwata chechikwata chinowedzera makore matatu kusvika mashanu uye dzimwe nguva kwenguva refu. Muzviitiko zvakawanda, nzvimbo yeuchikomba inosvika pakumira zvishoma nezvishoma uye inotsiviwa nekuwedzera rudo nekudzimba.

Kuuya kwomwana wokutanga, uye izvo zvinoda uye zvinoda zveupenyu hutsva, zvinoratidza nguva dzose kuguma kwechikamu ichi muukama hwevamwe vaviri.

Chengetedza Rurimi Rwakave

Kana ukangosvika pakureva muukama hwako apo unonzwa uchinetseka, pane zvinhu zvaunogona kuita kuti uchengetedze kutema:

Unogona Here Kurarama Nokusingaperi?

Kunyange zvazvo vamwe vakaroorana vachitaura kuti vari muhupenyu husingaperi, hazvina musoro kutarisira kuti zviitike. Nhau dzakanaka, kunyange, ndezvekuti inogona kudzoka kana iwe ukwanisa kumirira kusvikira vana vari kunze kwemba mumakore makumi maviri kana zvakadaro-uye ipapo unogona kungoona rudo uye kuseka, zvepabonde uye zuva rinodzokera kuhupenyu hwako.